ashlei.

Let’s clear some things up.

First off,
yes, I’m getting married.
Second,
NO I’M NOT PREGNANT!
Third,
Our wedding date was originally February 10th, 2011.
It changed.
Fourth,
The reason why it changed. Brandon is joining the military. We both felt like it was best if we got married before he went off to boot camp. Therefore, when he comes back from basic training him and I can both go live on base.
Fifth,
if you think i’m “too young” or i should wait, too bad. I understand you guys have concerns, and thanks for having those concerns for me but really it’s my life so let me live it. You guys might think i’m too young but you know how many people i know that got married young and are going on like 20 years now? Yeah, they did fine, so why can’t i? I love the boy i’m marrying very much, and your opinions can’t change that. Yeah, a little part of me wishes we could wait until I was 18, but things came up and i’m doing what i feel is right. Another thing, if you think my mom’s stupid for signing the papers so i can get married before i’m 18 suck it. Seriously, you think she fully supports the idea? she probably doesn’t, but she does support me so she’s doing what i asked. It’s a little ridiculous how almost everyone feels the need to judge. Get the story right, before you go on judging. And, stop asking if i’m pregnant. I’m not stupid enough to get pregnant before I’m married, and if I were to get pregnant before getting married, I wouldn’t get married because of it. You know, god forbid I fall in love with someone, and decide to start my life with him early. I don’t have to be pregnant to get married. I swear the next person who asks me that, there will be a problem. Because seriously, it’s rude. How would you like it if i went and asked you if you were pregnant? not only is it rude, but it hurts. Especially when its the people I love who ask. You guys asking those questions hurt. I’m sorry i’m getting married young and it’s not your idea, but it’s not you. Stop asking offensive questions.

kay thanks.

i’m done venting now.